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In recent years, collecting experiences has become quite popular, with some people "enriching" their lives by trying various activities and feeling proud of themselves.
In reality, while they may have many experiences, they often lack true insight. When you find yourself "in the moment" but don't take the time to carefully observe the people and things around you, reflect on them, and understand the interactions and meanings involved, you may go through the motions without gaining new knowledge or awareness. This results in a fleeting experience, like "a boat passing over water without a trace" or "sleeves brushing against without leaving marks," which is truly unfortunate.
However, to genuinely gain rich experiences, we need to invest more effort. This means keenly observing the people and events around us, deeply reflecting on and understanding the essence and significance of interactions. Simply being present is not enough; we need to leave a lasting impression with each experience, turning them into opportunities for learning and growth.
Experience requires the accumulation of feelings and intuition. These need to be fully absorbed, internalized, and integrated. We should constantly remind ourselves not to blindly pursue quantity, but rather to delve deeper into our experiences and reflect on them more thoughtfully. In the same amount of time spent, we can gain more insight than others. This is where the difference between us and others lies.
